When you are moving on from a painful divorce there is a lot to consider and a lot of ground to cover. There is a massive amount hinging on doing the right things in the right order or you might stumble and fall into a situation you don’t want. For example:
- Alcoholism and drugs.
- Anger issues leading to many conflicts and burned bridges.
- Depression and even suicidal thoughts.
- Getting into a relationship too fast and destroying it
- Getting into another marriage too fast to find it is a bad one
- Financial ruin
- and more ...
With all this possible and more, you need to know how to navigate this minefield of turbulent emotions and possible conflicts. There are a few things you need to be aware of.
- There are 5 stages of grief and divorce recovery we all go through when we suffer great loss and divorce is the same.
- The stages are denial - anger - bargaining - depression - acceptance.
- Each stage can be progressed through quickly, but each must be experienced for better healing after divorce.
- Your emotional pain is not caused by your situation, it is caused by the massive change that leaves you without a sense of self causing much of this soul searching. It is more than feeling rejected ...
So to move on means to experience these things and let them go one at a time. Being aware of your journey before you start on it is one very important way you can move on in a step by step manner until you set yourself free from the misery of post divorce life guys!
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